Tips For Guys From A Porn Star – Are You Man Enough In The Bedroom
TSBMagazine.com: About the Author: Shawnee Lenee is a pornographic model and actress. She is also the creator of the infamous 2 Girls Teach Sex videos.
That is what the “A” stands for in the P.A.V.E. system I show in the 2 Girls Teach Sex DVDs, and it’s the topic of your 10th and final lesson. I saved one of the best lessons for last, and I mean it. There are few things that turn a girl on MORE than a guy who commands authority in the bedroom. When you act like a man it makes us feel like women =)
There are a lot of ways to be authoritative with your girl. Here are six you can use to get on the right track, tonight!
1. Take charge!
This starts right from the beginning. Don’t ASK for sex. Just make your move! YOU must lead the interaction. Here’s a great way to show her you’re in control: Once you have her turned on, naked, and ready to go, tell her she isn’t ready yet. Tease her, and tell her she has to beg for it before you will give it to her. Then tell her what positions to get in, tell her what to say, tell her whatever… just make sure you are leading!
Make her orgasm on your command. When she is getting close, tell her you want her to come for you. OR tell her she isn’t allowed to come until you say it’s OK. Then keep doing her hard and make her wait for your OK.
2. Talk dirty.
The whole authority thing backfires if you proceed to have silent sex with me!
Start early. If you’re meeting up with your girl later, call or text her ahead of time and tell her you’re going to do bad things to her. Tell her she better be ready. Don’t know what to say once you are all over each other? Start by just describing what you’re doing, then tell her what you’re about to do to her.
Tell me what positions to get into. Tell me to talk dirty to you, tell me whatever, but save the “I Love You’s” for another day!
3. Do me hard!
You can’t be authoritative if you aren’t giving it to me hard, plain and simple. Save the sensitive love-making for another time. You have to put me in positions that are good for this – doggystyle is GREAT and so are a lot of other positions I cover in 2 Girls Teach Sex (duh =) )
But don’t confuse hard with fast. You don’t have to be pounding away like a jackhammer – just full, hard, and deep. Get Physical! Gently but firmly pull her hair from the back near the roots, slap her lightly on the ass, throw her onto the bed, “mock” rip her clothes off with your teeth!
4. Use authority THROUGHOUT the whole experience.
Lead the way, tell me what positions to get in, and I will love it. Talk dirty to me and I will love it. Do me hard and I will love it. But do ALL of these things… and watch me totally lose control and come over and over at your command!
5. It is all relative.
Authoritative for one couple might be completely different from authoritative for another couple. If you have been having boring, quiet, missionary sex, with the lights out for the last 15 years – you have to be careful not to do too much too soon. This can make her uncomfortable and ruin the experience.
So start out slow if you have to. As you both get more comfortable you can keep adding to the authority… and having more and more fun!
6. IMPORTANT: Authority is not the same as being mean!
Authority is all about being in charge, and telling the girl what you want. It’s NOT about degrading her, making her feel uncomfortable, or being too serious. One of my favorite things is when a guy is authoritative in a playful way. It’s more about him knowing that I enjoy him being in charge, that he’s not afraid to tell me what he wants, and that I can just safely give in to him.
Remember, authority is one of the best ways to get and keep a woman 100% sexually satisfied. This wraps up your 10 Sex Lessons. Many men have told me JUST these lessons have changed their entire sex lives! And taken them from clumsily messing around and “hoping for the best” in the bedroom to confidently giving their women orgasm after juicy orgasm, whether it’s their very first time with a girl, or someone they’ve been with for years! In fact, one of the reasons why I’m so excited about the 2 Girls Teach Sex program is because of just how powerful this knowledge is when it comes to relationships.
You see, when you hit it off with a woman, and she starts thinking about becoming intimate with you, a girl will often become very nervous. And the BETTER you get along, and the stronger the connection, the MORE nervous she gets. Why? Well, take it from me, EVERY woman has had the experience of hitting it off with a guy, and being really excited about starting a relationship with him only to sleep with him and discover he doesn’t know what he’s doing in the bedroom.
There is really no bigger disappointment for us girls. ESPECIALLY if we like the guy a lot. Because we know that if a guy is at a certain age, and still doesn’t know what he’s doing in the bedroom, it is very unlikely he’s going to “snap out of it” and all-of-a-sudden figure out how to get us off.
Guys, you want to get with a hot chick who knows what she wants in bed?? Then don’t be a freaking pussy!! Man up! Take charge! Women may say they want you to make love to them, but deep down, every woman wants to get FUCKED and FUCKED HARD.
